10.2.07

first timers

ahh... woke up around 9.30 Sunday morning and felt rested and new. why, and yes, i have a new bed. thanks for noticing. ;) went to ikea on friday and bought myself a bed. and i've slept in it for the first time. all i can say is mmm...

and for the first time in a long time, i told someone off. i showed my anger, i told her what i thought (without going evil on her ass). the co-worker who commented on my effort at work. she had evasive explanations and sweet talk in her back pocket, but the anger only faded slowly. so we talked. she apologized. and i accepted.
i do think that her apology was real, but i don't think that she really understood why i became mad at her in the first place. the good news is though that i'm not angry about it any more. and not bitter, cursing and talking it over in the head while doing dishes, like so many times before.

another first timer was a woman i met tonight. a truely wonderful woman, whom i invited for coffee and talked to. bright, humble, person with the skills to see you and meet you at your level. a woman who follows her gut feeling. and i like that. my own gut feeling says that she's a keeper.

and in, not the distant future lies a trip to the states and especially the big apple. first time all over, in other words. haven't met my friend, the f-man in several years, whom i'll be staying at. and the rest is just for the first time!

first timers... i like'em!

2 comments:

Anonymous said...

Sant sant. First timers. Även om det inte alltid lyckas första gången. Så första gången...Alltid första gången. Vare sig det gäller sova i en ny säng, åka till NY, eller första träffen med någon. En grej man kan ha minnet och tänka på ibland. Vad kan till exempel vara trevligare än att tänka på när man kände pirret första gången?

När får man träffa dig nästa gång???

g-spot said...

mmm... detta härliga pirr (gud, jag råkade skriva piss! HAHA!), det är fantastiskt!

Och nästa gång behöver inte ligga för långt i framtiden! Lust att ha spelkväll hos mig? Fredag/Söndag?